The guy I lost it to..I don’t love him, but I really cared for him and things hurt a lot when we ended things. I’m scared to move on, we never dated, he was just my first for everything, but he treated me like sh*t, used me, made me worthless and hopeless…that’s why I feel like I don’t love him!
Honestly, will I still find my first love..even if he wasn’t my first for anything?!
Thanks! Xoxo,
She broke up with me 4 months ago , and a month ago she reminded me about the bear I got her , so I gave it to her mom at Church, couldn’t find her, and she sent me a sweet text saying thanks…..her mom messages me all the time and she said that she sleeps with the bear at night and keeps saying on how fluffy it is and also what can i do to change things and have a chance to maybe get her back..also Sunday I got awoken by a text message from my ex saying you better be at Church today mr
The main reason of the break up was because I was shy at Church and didn’t talk to her or go up to her because I was nervous…So I’m gonna face my fears and come out of my shell and walk up to her and say something to her what do i say? And her mom sits with her so that makes me more nervous
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Im not talking about the baby, im talking about the older one. lol, I don’t want you guys to think im a pervert looking at a baby
A guy told me when I bend down he looKs down my shirt and I get him hard is that even possible
I’m a 19 yr old girl who has been talking to this 25 yr old guy in the UK. We’ve been talking just over 3 months now.We can and have talked for literally hours straight (it’s not rare for us to talk 6-7 hours straight) and we never run out of anything to talk about. he’s really intelligent and funny.Everytime i talk to him i get all giddy and excited.We also Cam via skype quite a lot, i’m incredibly attracted to him. I know i’ll get the » you can never trust anyone online» thing, but i truly do trust him,everything he has told me has proven to be true. we’re friends on facebook and i know even the smallest details of where he works and who is family is.He seems very genuine and has been very comfortable sharing pers onal things about his life with me.Anyways, fairly early on the attraction got the better of us and we developed something a little bit sexual online, not that i need to get into details. but it’s not something either of us predicted happening, while we do have normal conversations a lot, we also talk about sex a lot as well.He recently brought up that he wants to meet me and asked what i thought, we both agreed to meet within a year..He is always complimenting me calling me gorgeous or adorable, and telling me how he’s thinking of me.. the thing is i’ve dealt with so many players. and i oddly enough really like this guy (even though i never thought i would like someone i met online), and while i believe he is genuine and feel like he is one of the few «good guys» and i find myself constantly thinking about him but i’m still cautious because of the past guys i’ve dealt with. How can i tell if he’s just a really good sweet talker or if he means what he says?
Before you read any of this he did tell me he liked me
1.) He wanted a friends with benefits relationship despite the fact that we had feelings for each other.
2.) He denies his feelings 2 days after I turned him down(to clarify, I said no to be a friend with benefits) I KNOW FOR A FACT THAT HE WASNT USING ME DUE TO THE FACT THAT HE DID SOMETHING AFTER TO PROVE THAT HE CARES A LOT ABOUT ME.
3.) He pushed me away(barely responded to texts, ended conversations quickly)
4.) Avoidedme in school, but still stared at me everytime we passed each other for more than 5 seconds
5.) I pretended to go along with being friends with benefits to see if he was using me. When I started making excuses for a few days that I honestly couldn’t make, he said it was a bad idea and he wanted to start over. WE NEVER HAD SEX OK.
6.) Deleted me on Facebook after I posted «It’s sad when the people you know become the people you knew. When you can walk right past them like they were never a big part of your life. How you used to be able to talk for hours, and how now you can barely even look at them.»
7.) Didn’t have an answer for why he deleted me
8.) When confronted about pushing me away, he told me to leave him alone, and then suggested starting fresh.
9.) A few weeks later, he retweeted: «what’s that thing called when your crush likes you back? Oh yeah. Imagination.»
Is he insecure or not interested?
I’ve gotten advice from here before. To like pretend Im not interested and stuff. When he first asked me to be friends with benefits, I started avoiding him after a little bit the next day. And when he asked to start over, neither of us talked to each other. I usually tried to avoid eye contact and I would walk with other guys. Did it seem as though I wasnt interested?
Yes, I confronted him about him saying he didnt like me, and the reason he gave is fake
The past 2 weeks, we’ve seen each other everyday because of school activities. He stares more than a normal person would(typically i catch him staring when he thinks im not looking).
It was around 9:00PM, and it was dark outside after a long day of training camp for a school program. He is 2 years older, and old enough to drive, while i am not. There mustve been atleast 50 other cars in the cramped high school parking lot. I was beginning to think my mom wasnt going to show up, so i started walking out of the school parking lot. He then pulled up in his car next to me, and said «allison your mom is over there.» I said «oh ok thanks» and then walked in that direction. I was a little creeped out, but happy that i didnt have to walk home. When i got there, the windows were closed, and my mom was inside the car, and she said no one talked to her or anything. So he actually watched me get picked up one of the few times i didnt walk home? He was peeking in the car? What the heck?
She is my old crush. I am not sure if she still likes me or not. She got mad at me for 3 weeks because she saw me talking to another girl. The girl was just a friend though. Well last week we was staring at each other. She flipped her hair bac twice. Her hair isn’t that long and I never seen her flip her hair before. She could have been trying to get my attention or nervous. It didn’t seem like it was in her face.
This always happen to me. After few dates, guys will cut off contact with me and find other and better girls. Why is that? all of my gfs have boyfriends or dating/talking to someone for a long time.
I’m 20 years old and I’ve had boyfriends in the past but never in college. I’m going to be a junior.
This is me
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Am I not pretty enough?
im asking this because this guy unfollowed me on instagram this morning after going on a couple of dates. We never had sex and the furthest thing we done is making out. I’m still a virgin.
Why? Is it because I’m going back to LA in few weeks for college? So we won’t see each other? He lives in SF.
But he’s been sending snapchats until last night.
I never spammed the newsfeed.
Everytime someone unfollows me, I feel ugly 
I don’t know why! I can’t stop thinking about him! We’ve been texting on and off texting for 10 months, we’ve been out a few times & we’ve hung out a lot, where quite good friends. We’ve kissed but that’s it. I haven’t text him for like 2 weeks or seen him. Before that I realised for the past few weeks it was me texting him first. I remember a while ago having a convocation with him and he said «from now on I’m never texting a girl first» I don’t know If he was being serious or joking we just laughed about it…
I had a dream about him 3 times last week and since I haven’t been able to stop thinking about him. I really do care about him, but I feel like he doesn’t care back. I have feelings about him but i don’t know how to tell him, I don’t think I even want too. I feel like ill make a fool of myself, as he’s known for being what people call a «slime» & alot of my friends have warned me about his bad reputation of how he treats girls, but he’s different with me he’s so lovely.
I want to text him but I feel like I’m just being too random & I don’t even know what to say..
Also I told him once that I feel like he only talkes to me because I text him first and he said «trust me if I didn’t want to talk to you I wouldn’t text back» of that helps
Sorry for the essay hahahaha, but I just need some advice on what to do, I don’t like waiting…
There’s this boy that I’ve been friends with for a little over a year. When I first met him, I immediately friend-zoned him because I was dating someone else (who I was never entirely happy with anyway). He was in activities with all of my friends and he quickly became integrated into our group.
When our mutual friend went through something unbearably traumatic at the end of last year, we became close before I even knew anything about him and, this summer, we started talking and haven’t really stopped since. When he first started talking to me this summer, I was fine with it because I thought he was still dating his ex-girlfriend. Then I found out in July from some of my other friends that they had broken up. I panicked for a few weeks, but gradually calmed down and kept talking to him.
Fast forward to this August: I’m studying at my friend’s house one day and we’re talking about any and everything and she brings up the boy. I start talking about him, and all of a sudden, I’m struck with the realization that I like him. A few days pass normally and I carry on my daily conversations with him. Then, one of my friends tells me that they heard through several people that this guy is going to ask someone to Homecoming, except he wouldn’t tell anybody who it was he was planning on asking.
The weekend after that, I spent entirely immersed in my thoughts. What if it was me? What if it wasn’t me? When this internal battle subsided, I reached a conclusion. I like everything about this boy, from the inside out. He’s so good and sweet and cares so much for everyone he knows. If I had a bad day, he texted me jokes to cheer me up. He OFFERED to do that. And he sucked at telling the jokes, too.
Sometimes we look at each other, and I just completely see him. We understand each other and he’s my rock. I don’t want to lose him, but we could have so much more.
My heart will be broken if he doesn’t take me to Homecoming, but I’m not even sure if he realizes he’s out of the friend zone. Am I the one he’s going to ask, or am I not «safe» enough and he’s shooting for someone else? Or am I even on on his radar at all? Am I just a «good friend?»
And to be honest, he started off fast. Asking me to meet his parents (and I’m the first girl he ever brought over) and by telling me he loves me. We were fine. And now he says «we’re just getting to know each other right?». I was shocked. So anyways now he hasn’t text me the whole day and I’m fine with that because I don’t want to speak to him either. What should my next steps be? We are in our mid 20′s.
There’s a girl I like and she likes me. Earlier this morning she was pretty tired and seemed upset about something i tried texting her but there was no answer. I texted her friend and she said she was sleeping. That was at about 930 this morning it’s 230 now and I haven’t heard from her. Should I text her now or wait for later
I have a crush on my tattoo artist . I saw him on zoosk I sent a wink yesterday. He didnt reply back. I dont want to chase him. I want him to make the moves. I dont know what to do. What do I do?
Alright so here’s the deal, me and this girl have been waiting for almost a year to date each other. We dated secretly for about 4 months but we stopped because she’s not supposed to date until out of high-school for various reasons. She’s a senior this year and I am just thinking ahead of time on what we will do on our first date, anyone have any sweet ideas? I don’t want like a normal first date because we are already crazy for each other and know each other very well. I want something that will be special and that we will always remember as an awesome first «official» date!
I’m not worried about cost but nothing outrageously expensive please and we won’t be having sex on this date so please no ideas that suggest we do.
OK I’ve been dealing with it for a long time and for some reason I just can’t seem to get my Question out there wanting to ask a girl out I Don’t know if its just me or if something is telling me Not To im thinking its because im a Catholic that could be why cause I don’t wanna end up doing the wrong thing.hopefully some of you people can give me some good Answers?
Okay, so last night me and my crush went on a date, and he asked me out to homecoming. It was simple and sweet. Homecoming is over a month away, but I’m still so nervous! I don’t know how I’m going to plan everything and get my dress. What if he doesn’t like my dress? What if I’m not really a good date?
im a 24 year old guy, and have two female friends. i was wondering who you think would be better for a longterm dating relationship..
A) having a friend who shares in the struggles of your past with loneliness, betrayal, fatherlessness. Also shares longterm goals, some passions, and has a cohesive personality with you.
B) having a friend who does not share in your past struggles at all, but shares the same longterm goals, more passions, but not really a cohesive personality.
which do you think is better longterm?
So I really like a guy and I’ve been trying for the past 7 months to forget about him, I can have a month of thinking its finally gone but then it all comes back and I spend ages trying to forget! Grr. He loves another girl, there not going out though. I can’t not be around him cuz he is in my group of friends. I’m just really annoyed that I can’t get over him cuz I’ve always the one saying that love is pointless at my age (13) and I still think that and yet I just have to have a crush don’t I! So how can I forget him! WHY CAN’T I forget him?!?!?!? Please help
Manhandle what does that mean? Like in a sexual way? I’m confused.
So manhandle means rough, my boyfriend’s friend says my bf wants to «manhandle me» but in what sense does it mean? Like sexually- throw around? What? Someone help me,?
Just met this guy from Puerto Rioc, he is new here and I started talking to him yesterday , we got into deep conversation about life and religion etc. At school. So I had to leave to get my bus he asked for my number, so I ghave it to him ,then, out of habit I went to hug him because I usually huggguy friends and everyone, but he looked confused and an awkward half hug ensued, I said bye and went to my bus. He hasn’t texted me yet, its been a day. Is it normal to hug someone after just meeting them?? We are both hispanic and I thought it would be friendly. Would him being weired out by that cause him to not text me ?
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Okay so my boyfriend and I have been together for almost 5 months.. I met my boyfriend and this other guy both about the same time, at the beginning of the year, but I’ll just explain last night.
This guy likes me, and I never liked him until recently at his school production, in front of like hundreds in the crowd (he was the main) after singing (also the main in the choirs) he blew me a kiss and I just thought it was the sweetest thing ever.
Last night was a party at the clubrooms he organised.
At one point he seen me fall over, so he came and dragged me to the kitchen and sat me down and made me drink water as he thought I was too drunk. This is when the rumours started, and some girl told my boyfriend I was in there hooking up, so my boyfriend stormed in, having a go at this guy. (They already hate each other, obviously) I’d told them both I’d be mad if they fought, so they didn’t. I ended up walking out after I (apparently) yelled at the other guy.
We got outside and I was yelling at my boyfriend, and he got tears in his eyes and was trying not to cry, so I hugged him. I went outside, and my friend had heard the rumour by then and slapped me. I was upset so I walked off with my boyfriend.
He for some reason thought I was about to break up with him, and when I ran back to the party (I decided I wanted to beat up my friend) he burst out crying because he thought I was going back to see the other guy, and he was telling me how much he loved me etc. (This is so weird, my boyfriend is not the type of guy to cry)
Anyway, this other guy rang me tonight. He told me how much he cared about me, and how he’d lay in bed for 2 hours last night crying over me (this is extremely weird.. he’s like a man-whore, body builder — someone you’d never expect to cry)..
He told me he thinks I’m too good for my boyfriend, because if he was my bf he would have beaten up the guy trying to steal me months ago.. he also told me about how he’s mean to girls now (uses them for sex) because of what had happened to him last year (exactly what’s happening with me now).
I admitted I have feelings for him.. he told me we would stay friends, and see if it works out next year when my boyfriend leaves to university, as me and my boyfriend have decided we will most likely break up when that happens as I have trust issues.
Also, he questioned why I have trust issues, telling me if I was his girl he would never even think about other girls.
I would normally say he isn’t genuine as he’s a man-whore, but he told his best friend who my friends going out with «I care about that girl more than anything. I just want a chance with her».
I haven’t told my boyfriend I have feelings for this guy (I like my boyfriend more, of course). I told him how this other guy feels though.
What do I do? Have I done anything wrong here? :/
Known each other for 2 weeks. Very high sexual chemistry, always want hold each others hand, kiss each other and hug each other but NO sex. Hes very emotional. When i said i liked someone else (to test him) he cried. And another time when i said we need some time apart (personal reasons) he cried again. He said he wants a relationship with me but just not now…but sooner rather than later. He says he really likes me, makes efforts to see me, contacts me regularly, says he will treat me.like a princess. Today we saw each other and spent hours together. He asked me if i was ready to be his girlfriend and i said yes. He told me his ex messaged him out of the blue a week ago and he told her (he actually showed the message from his phone) i met a girl and her name is ____. I really like her and i think she really likes me.’ And she just said shes happy for him and he said he wants to remain her friend. He keeps crying when i try to leave him. But idk.. what do you think of him??
I have noticed it in previous relationships. Despite what people think if you are dating someone people assume I am having sex and the lot and tend to lose respect for me, even if we are dating as friends. People seem to respect me more when I am single and stay away from men. When I am dating a man or looking for a man people tend to lose respect for me. Does anyone else notice this and why is this? I admit my choices in men have not been worthwhile but I learn from my mistakes.
I know you prolly think imma jerk but I’m not ..me and my girlfriend got into and argument because she said that I flirt with other girls too much and that’s not true I’m just an outgoing kind of guy …anyways she said imma creep and that she needs to think about whether she wants to be with me or not… I said fine… Then later that day I was upset so I called up this other girl I know and asked her to come over to talk anyways one thing lead to another and she ended up sucking my dick (and she swallowed) and it was soo good but now I’m not sure if I should dump my current girlfriend and get with this other girl.. I mean my girl is cute but this other girl is sexy as hell… So what do u think she I just stay with my girl and if I do should I tell her about the other girl…
Ps I only cheated cuz she upset me so much… I really care about her
When someone says «he is above average» when it comes to looks, is it the same thing as just saying «he is good-looking?»
I’m about to be 21 I’ve been so depressed for almost 3 years now my birthday is I’m oct I have a feeling no ones gonna show
Up if I have a dinner I’m a nobody I’m friends with the popular girls but everyone knows me as the shy and quiet type I try being talkative and being outgoing but something someone always says a comment on it and i go into depression my first boyfriend broke up with me like 2 years ago we were on and off a lot just ended a couple months ago he’s moved on but I can’t I loved him and he broke up heart I don’t think I ever can no one wants me at least not the people I want I feel like I can’t trust anybody like everyone is always talking negative about me I have a very low self esteem idk what to do I have a lot of family problems always getting into fights with my parents I’m still a Virgin I go to a fashion show I just don’t have how to have a better self esteem i just fell like everyone always have something negative to say about be like if someone eles did the same thing no one would care for ex putting on red lipstick but if I did I feel like people secretly make fun of me idk I haven’t slept in days not doing good I’m school ethier I just give up on my self
Me and my girlfriend have been together almost a year but I feel like I just can’t be happy in this relationship anymore. But the main problem is.. I have absolutely nothing left. I didn’t have any friends in real life I only had a pretty close group of friends online and one especially close friend. My especially close friend removed me and ignored me from everything because I basically stopped talking to him and I realized I hurt him after it was too late. My other friends just don’t really feel close enough to hit up and do anything else with anymore either. I have pretty bad social anxiety and such so it’s not easy for me to make friends. As for the relationship ending I just feel like she is bullying me. Wh enever I bring up a problem I have between us/with something she did she instantly hangs up the call no matter what so we have to text and tells me she wasn’t feeling well or doesn’t have to deal with this or that I’m being dramatic. Recently it felt like she’s been playing me, like after we got in a small argument she posted on Facebook that «she loves it when no one listens to her» and that she was in a horrible mood, but then when I talked to her she said she wasn’t even upset and she just used that to get a reaction that she expected out of me texting me the whole time because she wouldn’t answer calls. What we had did feel extremely good at one point but now it just feels like she wants me to leave almost like its never her fault. I want to leave her.. But ill have nothing left and she keeps saying that I’m the one at fault and that I shouldn’t want to leave a relationship (I tried telling her the way she was act ing was making me extremely sad and it made me want to leave). We both have our problems, we’ve spent around 12 hours a day for the past year together but now it
Feels like she’s being righteous about everything. I honestly would think that I would be okay if I could just tell her I want to go our separate ways and she just wished the best for me or told me
She’s sorry but I know she will say I knew you were weak or something .. Please any advice would help, I can’t hate anyone I’ve tried it’s just a mentality I can’t get rid of so please no «dump the bitch» please.
Thank you to everyone who so much as read this
I’m a fourteen year old girl and I’m crazy horny a lot lately and its driving me insane… What home remedies can I use to masturbate with or something? I need ideas. Help .-.
Not dating the gguuy old friends. and we’ve been hooking up this last month he takes me out leaves his nice tv at my house. he hasn’t texted mee for twoo days because he’s sick and busy at work. uhm help?! He got me to like him now he’s backing away?
I’ve been talking to this guy I like on Facebook lately, we only have one class together so we don’t talk much at school. But the other day I was talking to him about how my mum wouldn’t let me take a job that I was offered at the same place he works at and he seemed dissapointed. He also asked the other day when my status was «feeling alone» if I was okay and why I felt alone. I haven’t talked to him alot but when we have we talk for ages and I really like him but do you think he likes me back?
Thanks to anyone who answers properly xx
So there is this boy I have very strong feelings for. I have liked him for 2 years. He is 17 and I am 15 (I’ll be 16 before he’s 18). I had liked him from afar for a year. We started working together and he is super nice and funny and he dresses well, has traveled all over the world, and has a great taste in music. I used to turn really red when ever he talked to me. The blushing isn’t so much a problem anymore but the butterflies are still there. He always makes an effort to have a conversation with me at work. He gave me a ride home once before I bought my car and he told me if I ever needed a ride he’d give me one. Once the restaurant was locked up and I was leaning down untangling the vacuum cord and he came behind me and scared me. Some times I look at him and he’s already looking at me. I seriously like him a little more whenever he does these things. I am not popular… he is. Once earlier this year he was with his friends and they were joking about me liking him.. He said he’d never date me. (My best friend is his friend’s sister.) We started talking again and I like him just as much as ever. A couple weeks ago he was going after my friend and she kind of rejected him. Now he’s going after another one of my friends but she just moved to New Zealand so I don’t know what he thinks is going to happen there (Also keep in mind that my friend in NZ wants this boy and I to be together more than anything.) Last night I was at a dance and he came up to me and asked me to dance. I did and we talked and he’d lean in to hear me. I don’t understand. I mean he is nice but he didn’t have to ask me to dance.. what do you think? Do you think he likes me or he’s ju st being nice? He sends me so many mixed signals I can’t take it.
So i met this girl during the summer and we were hanging out every weekend for the last two months. Last week she went on vacation for 3 weeks and this friday is her birthday. I wanted to send her a card but i dont know the address of the place shes staying so i guess a text will have to do.
I was thinking something like:
Hey, so I just found out that this beautiful girl I know by the name of Candace is turning 20 today, can you please let her know that I wish her a happy birthday and hope all her wishes come true 
Or
Happy birthday to the most beautiful girl in the world. Hope all your wishes come true
Which one is better ?
My girlfriend and I have been together for 10 months. Long story short she does not like it when i curse in front of her brothers which she has good reason to. Every time i curse she would smack me on the hand. She recently did this in front of them and i snapped at her. Told her it is kind of emasculating and all. She has been mad about that. So today there was a wedding reception, she went with her dad on account it is with a business partner. Before she went, she told me «lets just call it a day, goodnight». With some texting back and forth, i have not responded. I stepped out the house with my sister and she texted me saying she misses me. I responded nicely and asked how the reception is and i miss her. I asked her last if she is okay caus e i sensed something was off. She has not responded yet. Now the reception was 7-11. Is she still keeping the grudge or she wants me to chase her and whatnot? Someone shed some light.
I’ve been talking to someone for about 6 weeks, he’s very polite asks me about how’s my day going flirts and he’s asking me weird stuff like:
‘ «don’t u miss me?»
«I hope that you keep me in mind»
» I want to give u a hug and a kiss»
At the beginning I told him that I didn’t want a bf so I guess he backed up a little but he texts me most days, he’s busy most of the days, but he texts me. He told me that he’s very affectionate, but sometimes I sense that he’s also testing me to see how I will react. He also has a very demanding job and he has a kid. I really like him how could ask him what exactly he’s looking for without being pushy?
I personally think love is essential to get
married…
Love after marriage sounds stupid…i mean
it may happen for some….but others? It
seems like they have to love each other
just because they got married…
Mere living together doesnot mean they are
in love right?
He doesn’t moan like crazy but he does moan sometimes lol, is that good or??
When I was younger I was molested for a while and I kind of blocked it out but it still effects me to this day. I get very uncomfortable around guys, even guys I like. My face gets flustered and I can’t even talk to them. People that I work with and people I see at school. And I can’t stop myself from getting red or feeling intimidated. A guy I liked noticed and I just don’t know how to explain it to him. It’s effecting my love life I’m afraid of getting to close to anybody and I’m so inexperienced in everything.
Should I tell a guy if I get into a relationship so we can take it easy or keep it to myself?
I’m comfortable with who I am. Im just not trusting around guys and its so hard to beat it.
So guy on facebook pic: so you just wanna text me?
Girl: haha yeah sure
Flirting? What could this mean
im gonnna be a sophomore in high school and we started preseason for cross country this week and the assistant coach just graduated from yale a few years ago (he’s really young) I had him as a teacher last year (I could have him again this year) and I always thought he was super cute (and he knew it!) we make eye contact all the time but he always looks away really quickly.
also we do this strength circuit thing and he always comes and helps me with my squats and lunges…like he makes me hang back a sec and shows me how also he said his gf just broke up with him…could he be flirting with me??
I thought I was for the longest time. I hardly ever thought of him. I knew I still loved him, but I thought I was just moving on with my life and I finally felt fine that he wasn’t in it.
Just for some back story, we were together for about a year in 2009. We broke up in December 2009. So it has been almost 4 years since I last saw him or spoke to him. He lives in another state now, also, so we’re no where close to each other.
He wasn’t the type to have a social networking profile. I guess he decided to make a facebook, though, because suddenly he appeared on my «You might know this person» list. For some reason, I was wrecked. I couldn’t focus on anything I was doing. I can’t even remember what I was thinking at the time. I was just really shocked by it. The hurt began all over again.
So the past few weeks has been a nightmare for me. I have a new boyfriend for almost 3 years now. I love him very much. But I almost feel like if the opportunity presented itself, I would leave him for my ex…which I hate.
I went as far as to make a fake facebook, and add him. Just to see his profile because everything was private. He approved the request but then messaged me, asking how I knew him. I just told him I had met him at a party once.
His profile didn’t reveal a lot. He doesn’t have whether he’s single or in a relationship currently. But there’s this Japanese girl he’s friends with that I’m suspicious of. She has him tagged in a few pictures with her. It makes me sick, thinking of him being with someone else.
I kind of want to message him from my facebook, so he knows it’s me, and just see how he is…but this has proven to be futile in the past. Our relationship ended pretty badly.
This is so unhealthy. I don’t want to do this but it’s so hard not to. I just want to put him behind me and never have to look back.
Just a random thought. A girl who is 5’6, 106 pounds, blue eyes, brown hair, olive skin, a great personality, very sweet, loving, caring & one who can cook
I was walking in to the cafeteria and I heard my name called. She was having a bake sale. She called me over there and said do I want to buy any thing I said no I’m good then she said I have to because it was her birthday. Then I said I only have one dollar she said ill give you the other dollar. After i got my food I went to the cafe and 2 min later I came back out to use the bathroom and for about 8 sec we both look at each other(it was awkward) when I went back she said do you want to buy anymore things i said no and she said keep on walking peasant. Then that night I text her and we had a play fight because she thought I was her b****. Two days later said hi and she smiled and said don’t talk to me with a smile. Does she like me?
I have an amazing bf and we started doing long distance last year after dating for 2 years in the same city. I don’t want us to break up, in fact, I’m trying to avoid it.
We’re both busy, him with work and me with grad school. His job is so demanding that any calls we make (skype or phone) don’t usually last more than 10 minutes a day. We only get to be with each other a couple days every 2 months or so. It is so hard seeing my friends have a great time with their significant others. I want to spend time with bf, go on actual dates, and do romantic things together!
What are some things we can try to keep the romance alive?
My boyfriend drinks a loooot. And has been drinking since middle school and it got so bad that his parents basically disowned him two or so years ago.
We’ve only been dating almost five months. I started dating him knowing he was a drinker (although he had quit drinking for a year before hand and was just starting to drink again when we got together) and I knew I couldn’t ~change him~ or ~heal him~ or any of that non sense.
However within the few months we have been together, he got alcohol poisoning and promised he would stop drinking. He stopped for maybe a week and a half
A month or so before he got a DUI and had also promised to stop drinking. That time it lasted two days.
Last month he decided to put off going to college for a semester to work on staying sober because he knew if he went away to school drinking as much as he was, he wouldn’t do well in school. He stayed sober for about two weeks and started drinking again.
He’s not drinking AS BAD as he was before, but it’s still pretty heavy. He tells me he’s working on it (I don’t pressure him, I just offer support) but I don’t know if I believe him, because I haven’t seen any changes since he started drinking again.
He came over to my house last night sort of tipsy and I realized that this has been taking a huuuuuge tole on me emotionally and I don’t know what to do anymore because I love him to death and I really, really, really, really care about him but I don’t think I can handle his almost constant intoxication anymore, or his «I’m gonna stop drinking» spiels anymore because I always feel really dissapointed when he doesn’t follow through
So what should I do? Any suggestions? I don’t want to break up with him, but I just don’t know ( I’m scared to try and get him to get help because he’ll get mad at me when he’s upset he drinks more and just fbuewgbbghbrj
So this guy that was in my class last year, HE ALWAYS TEASED ME. He was mean to everyone though but he didn’t do it often with others but with me it was 24/7 since we were in 9th grade and we had every class together. He’s really shy and his friends told me that he liked me but at the beginning I rejected him and that’s why he started teasing me so much. I ended up liking him.. Stupid hah? Now I am in 10th grade and we’re not in the same class anymore. He started going into religion and he told me that now he’s nice to everyone. I have Spanish class with him and I did notice he’s nicer to everyone but HE STILL LIKES TO TEASE ME. He doesn’t do it often but he still does. Why does he pick on ME? Could he still like me ?:(
She asked me if we’re friends or together. I laughed and told her «I don’t know.»
We broke up about 3 months ago and it was a bad break up (didn’t need to be but turned that way with angered emotions). I started a stupid fight and he responded like he didn’t care so I dumped him which I quickly took back but he refused to forgive me and said he needed his space and that he needed to focus on himself and his work and needed to be single for awhile and maybe in the future we will see what will happen (he does have a lot of stresses in life and work occurring).
This was a week before he left on deployment for 2 months. But, the night he left he liked a photo I posted of me and my cousin at her highschool graduation. I was very caught off guard since we hadn’t spoken at all since our fight. Then about 2 weeks later I messaged him for his birthday. It was a simple happy bday, hope you’re having fun. He responded with a big thank you and began to tell me all about what he was up to on deployment and how fun it was. I said that was great and asked where he was and he never respond.. the next day was the last day he went onto Facebook until returning home.
Now that he has been back home for about a month he has been casually liking my new pictures/status and posts; even commenting on a trailer I posted for our tv show that is airing again next month. but he will not text me nor talk to me directly… I don’t understand why he is acting so casual toward me.. what is he thinking?? I feel as if he doesn’t want to get back together just yet (hopefully in the future) but doesn’t want to disappear completely from my life in the meantime… any thoughts?
Btw we were a very serious relationship and truly loved one another so I know he wouldn’t just want to be friends… that’d be impossible so soon, if at all haha and please do not say likes mean nothing, you like random people’s stuff all the time because yes, I do that as well but not your very recent ex that you we crazy about. That just makes no sense
I know this friend from workplace. We both are seeking for love partner so we join dating events together. I tend to be more observant with guys while shes quite naive in terms of relationship. She took my opinion quite seriously. We bump into an accountant on an event we both attended. He got both our numbers but he didnt know we are friends. I trusted her so I told her I met this accountant whom I see potential in him. The guy and I started texting and we found out we are not that compatible. But he still text me in daily basis, right after work till he sleeps. I think hes not interested, just bored. I’m beginning to feel for him so I suggested we should move on and he didnt want to. Somewhere along our conversation , he did mention he met someone who he likes, someone whose homely, do housework on every sunday. I think I heard this from my girlfriend before. I know my girlfriend is not homely housewife type. She join dating events, aqua aerobics and shopping on every weekends. She has a maid, why would she need to do housework. Then I begin to realise their whatsapp log out time is almost the same everyday. I begin to suspect they are seeing each other. I felt betrayed and confronted her she should tell me they are dating, I would have move on. Now I felt like a clown, being used by both the guy and my friend. She told me who shes dating is non of my concern. I was pretty hurt my friend did this to me. This is not the first time she did this, the frist time was a teacher. I didn’t want to lose the friendship so I thought she deserves a chance. Now I dont anymore. I have blocked and deleted them. What will you do if you were in my shoes?
This girl and I went to middle school together and now we’re both in high school. We talked somewhat in middle school but all we do now is text. I start the text conversations but she asks some questions and answers most of the time. Is she interested? Or am I friend zoned?
f guy you been on three days says this you have asked for a rain check because he could not make the fourth date . Then said hope we can rearrange something soon then next text I HOPE TO SEE YOU AT SOME POINT . Then you hear anything form him no response non contract for now two weeks. This is someone blowing you off are just wanting to see you again when they feel like it i.e. casually . please can someone shed some light the thing is really was keen on the dates got on well were chatting every four days to week inbetween dates via text .
Well, this is kind of embarrassing but I always catch him staring at me. Like this onetime my friend was talking and then I looked to my left and i just saw him staring at me. I was kind of embarrassed so I just hid behind my guy friend. And whenever I walk right past him, I see from the corner of my eye that he’s looking at me. And when I ask my friend if he was looking she says yeah. And then this onetime, it was after school and we just kinda looked at each other for like 4 seconds and then i looked away becasue i was starting to blush.
I really, really like this guy so I was wondering if maybe he likes me back. He knows I liked him since like i was in seventh grade(I’m in eighth now) But I just pretend that I’m over him now. And a lot of girls are going after him. He gets kinda annoyed by them so i just pretend i don’t like him anymore.
Even my friend likes him, but she doesn’t know I like him. He keeps on rejecting her, so I kinda feel bad for her. I guess I just kinda try to hide my feelings for him, so… yup. Sorry if it’s soooo long lol
So I’m going camping, and I texted this girl (my crush) that there is this girl camping with us and she’s mad cute, but then I told her ‘I’d rather you be mine instead’. But then she texted back saying, ‘keep her, in like a sad face/whatever face’ then I asked what’s wrong, and she never texted me back, why did she react this way? I have a crush on her?
To start, I’ve never really understood cheating. I was molested by my step father most of my life so i didn’t really know what sex was even when i started having it. I thought it was just something you do with people you like a lot, like giving hugs. My parents didn’t want me to know. So i never understood why my bf’s would get so mad when i cheated. The guy that I’m with now says that cheating destroyed his life so he hates it. So I tried not to.
I’ve had a lot of guys interfere with my relationship because I went to school with them but my bf has always had a problem with my friends because he thinks they all want to have sex with me. Which I’m not saying he’s wrong but I didn’t agree. But I decided to go with it to show him I was trust worthy. Anyway he’s gotten into verbal confrontations with a few of my friends and began to not trust me because I wouldn’t let him kick their asses. He kept calling me a cheater even though I hadn’t done anything…yet. I did «cheat» on the second day of our break up with my ex. I know it was soon but my bf and I hadn’t had sex in months and I didn’t think the break up would be 4 days. We got back together but he counted it as cheating and hasn’t trusted me since. He says he’s trying to get over it but all he can think about is me with my ex and how much bigger he must be as to the reason i cheated. H ow do I show him that it didn’t mean anything and I really do love him?? I would marry this man before a pin could hit the floor. I would GLADLY have him 100 kids. I love him with all of my heart and soul but he doesn’t believe a word I say when I tell him.
am really interested in this guy I work with. We use to work in the same department and we would get a long really well, talk a lot, and felt really comfortable around each other. We’d joke, play card games during our break, tell each other stories we never told other people, etc. however, he never asked me out and I never asked him out. He always treated me differently than the other female co workers. To make a long story short, I transferred out of the department due to growing tired of working third shift. During my transition, he was very supportive and gave me critical advice that actually helped me move up in the company. Immediately afterward, he transferred out of the department as well. Two years passed and we stopped communicating. However, although we were n’t able to speak as much as we use to, I always sensed an intense feeling whenever we encountered each other in the hallway. I sensed a strong connection between us. I was so mesmerized by his aura. I feel strongly for him, but I’m unsure about his feelings toward me. Fast forward again. I was thinking about him constantly, and was surprised when I was sent to his department to work because his department has a lot of work that needs to be completed and a shortage of employees. Anyway. After two years of not speaking, there’s still a strong vibe between us. He’s normally quiet around me now, not as social as before, seems really shy and nervous. Somedays he initiates convo. I find myself initiating a conversation with him the most though. I always ask about his weekend plans, titles of some of his favorite books, etc. He’s very receptive and his responses are never as simple as «yes/no». Let me get to the point here — I am reall y into him. He’a a cool person but often hard to read. How do I do if he feels the same about me? he seemed so excited when we worked together last week. He kept coming extremely close to me and also blushing a lot. I also caught him staring at me then looked away. Also some days he’s really cold and distant, and tries to avoid conversing as much when a lot of ppl are around.
WHERE DO YOU THINK THEY ARE FROM?
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And no not at my dick…?looking down and in my direction….I did have my binder open on my desk so was that what she was looking at… I don’t like stare at this girl but if I think someone’s looking at me I think they want my attention… But when her head turned she wasn’t smiling or anything she kept starring and then later after that out of the corner of my eye i noticed that she was playing with her hair….?
I love someine truely he also loves me too..bt after some days he told me that he had some physical relation with her xgf and he is still in comtact with her.. i told him so many times not to contact with her but he is not listening at all and his xgf still loves him.. i m feeling that he is playing with me alot.. he fights with me.. he is not intrstd to share any personal things with me.. i just cant understand why he is behaving with me like that.. i always being v good with him..but he is not at all listening .. and he also dont want break any relationship with me whrn i asked him. I m totally confusedwhat to do now :’(
I’m a 17 year old female (18 in February) and am currently about to start dating a 22 year old man. He’s invited me to stay over sometime this week for the night, I’m keen and everything but I’m wondering if I should tell him because although there is the sexual element there it’s not all about the physical intimacy. Do I tell him and if so how is the best way?
Please help
used to hang out when I was little , and theres rumors that my mom slept with him going on in the family . some ppl even suspect im his son…. he was sicilian and I think I might be too. and when I looked up what sicilian ppl to see what they look like, I saw massive siliaritys .im also have spanish and Puerto Rican mix how would I know if im half sicilian ? if someone sicilian can tell me how to know for sure or something please let me know because my mom completly denies it because she says she’s not a cheater and that im italian spanish puerto rican and german but I just dont see the german part I have olive skin and big lips just like what it said on the internet about the sicilian ppl.
My bf wants to go to India for collage…..is India a great place??
I met this one guy a few weeks ago at a party, and we hooked up. I didn’t expect anything from him but he got my number and we’ve been talking alot. We even have a date today, and I know that he likes me alot and I really really like him. Well Last night I got super drunk at a party and made out with this one guy. We didn’t do anything sexual other than makeout in my bed. I thought about the first guy the whole time and I really really like him, I should have never made out with this other guy and now I don’t know what to do.
I broke up with my ex because i found out he got into a new relationship with someone else still being with me, he is now still with this girl and its been just over a year since weve broken up. Ive seen him a few times since, and pretty much forgiven him as i dont have any feelings for him and im very happy in a new relationship which ive been in for the last 10 months.
Im moving house and i have a bag of all my exs clothes, teddys he brought me, cards and little notes we used to send eachother. He doesnt want any of his clothes back and im pretty sure hes thrown away all my stuff, so im debating whether to throw all of it away or keep it to look back on? Also my boyfriend is helping me move house and i wouldnt want him to come across the bag of my exs stuff.
So should i keep it? and hide it away from my new boyfriend, or is it time to bin everything?
so i met a girl at school and got her number, i asked her if she would like to go on a date. and she said yes, we went and i think we both had a good time.
i also asked her to hang out again this week, and she said yes.
i see her in calass a couple times a week and will talk to her in there too.
how long should i wait until i ask her out?
3 weeks?
5 dates?
i honestly have no idea
i’m 17 btw
Need answers to my last two questions for the love of….please
This girl I talked to for a while made it seem like she liked me. But she slept with most guys at parties. So I got the vibe she wanted to be a friend which was cool to me. However she was seein someone else and I was busy with my own thing so we haven’t seen each other in 2 months. When we did she hugged me for the longest time, sat on my lap and then we chilled in my car for about an hour. She told me what she was up to, and me to her. She also told me she thought of me every single day. When it came time to leave she kisses me on the cheek and told me she loved me so much. I’m getting mixed vibes. I have no feelings for her, but it does make me happy she does this. But what does this mean?
Right;about a week ago my friend tried to set her next door neighbour up with me…he goes cadets and has a good ambition (he has signed to go into the army). He told me that he instantly fell in love with me because of my personality and because I am beautiful. We have been dating for about five days now-he doesn’t want sex from me so don’t assume that. I’ve been in his house and all we do is play xbox,hug,play music ect therefore none of that I wouldn’t let him pressure me to do anything i’m uncomfortable to do so please don’t assume I’m a slag and that he only wants me for sex-because to be honest,other boys who are younger than him do drugs,smoke and are players who do want sex. Do you think this is right or wrong? Thanks x
I love my boyfriend sooo much and we have a date on Saturday but my brother seriously hates him and my brother said he doesn’t want me to go I wish he would just back off and its not like my boyfriend is a random guy, we have been best friends since we were 6 and my brother really liked him then, I know hes trying to protect me but its going too far, I love my boyfriend and I just want my brother to leave us alone but at the same time I don’t know if I should go on this date? please help!x
My friends always tell me I’m pretty, but guys never come up to me and talk to me. I notice them looking at me but I get self conscious that there’s something wrong with me that they don’t come up to me…
I’ve had guys like me in the past but I always hear from other people… They never come upto me…
What can I do to have them approach me?
Sometimes when I’m doing something, suddenly I start to thinking about him and it’s kind of my heart and chest area is burning from inside. WHY?! Is this love? Is that mean that he is thinking about me at the same time? Or sometimes I want to see him so much that my heart and chest area gets very hot from inside. And again is that mean that we both want to see each other at the same time?
Sometimes when I go to bed suddenly I start to thinking about him and there is something in my heart that pulls me up. Whats the cause of all this?
so i spend 2 weeks in a hotel and i met this boy he was the cutest sweetest thing in my whole life we became close friends and i fell for him he’s kind a gentleman he’s handsome but unfortunately i had to go home yesterday and he’s staying till monday and then going back to germany and i live in france i feel so bad that he’s still there and i went home i cried so much and now i miss him to death and the chances i see him again in the next Year are so small i’m being all depressed and don’t know what to do please advice me
I met this girl last semester in college and we always talked during class. She made the first move and asked for my number and she was very talkative. She ended up dropping the class so we lost touch and we were supposed to go out and have lunch but we never did. I saw her the first week of this semester and she told me that she broke up with her boyfriend and they won’t get back together? Why did she tell me this randomly and do I have a chance? Is she interested or???
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Me and my girlfriend are completely different people which people say opposites attract. We get along for the most part but when we fight its bad! We’ve been together for three years when things are good thre good but when things are bad they are bad! She threatens to leave me if she doesn’t get her way, just this past time she threatened to take my dog with her. I don’t know what to do I don’t want to hurt her but the abuse gets old. The twisting the words bringing up all the past as a weapon casting her emotions onto me and blaming me. I don’t know what to do help! Everytime I try and break up she gets real emotional cries says she can’t live without me and won’t be with anyone else
It’s been going on for a while, I’m online when she’s online, I go offline, then I go online again and it says «offline for 10 mins» or something like that, which is the time when I log off. This is my crush, I asked her out over fb, she said she was busy, then i lied about how it wasn’t for real cause I really confessed and it was embarrassing. She bought it, and I ignored her completely since then, and this has been going on. Am I paranoid or is she thinking about me…? Cause we never actually met, but shes pretty and got a lot of guys going for her, and I think I fall under her preferences. idk whats the deal?
I really like this guy (he’s 5 years older)
Well the point is we have been talking for almost a month… (He asked me out I told him ok so he said to let him know when I can… I haven’t tell him yet..)
I’m scared that he only wants to play with me… He’s very attentive, always wants to know where I am what I’m doing always txting me to see what’s going on… Is like everything is too perfect to believe it… He does got mad when I don’t answer his txt for a couple of hours…
I’m falling for him but I’m really scared I mess things up and he doesn’t like me anymore or he’s just acting and then leave me…
Everytime I think about him it’s like I get happy and something scares me but I can’t figure out what?
2 weeks ago me and my guy friend got drunk together for the first time and at one point he hugged me from behind and then eventually we had sex. We’ve been friends for a couple years and I would always go to him when I had relationship problems with my ex and other guys. Except he’s never had a gf. Most of the time when we hang out he’ll try to kiss me. Most times I did, and rejected it before. He has asked me once if I wanted to have sex («But it doesn’t have to mean anything») but I said no. That was last fall.
Afterwards, he initiated a conversation and mentioned how he misses that day. He was asking me how I felt about it and mentioned he had fun and that he’s wanted to sleep with me for a really long time, and that he thinks I’m really pretty. But he didn’t say anything about dating me.
But now I’m noticing that he’s acting a bit more distant. Thing is, we’re going to different universities that are a few hours apart. Like I don’t want to to text me only once a month you know.. and we’ll be meeting new people. I’m not sure whether to pursue him, or just ignore him and move on?
So we are 15 and I liked him since last December, so I told my crush’s closet friend and he said he wouldn’t tell..and he hasn’t yet. But today I saw my crush Josh walking and I smiled and didn’t say nothing, and the guy I told was like «I’ll tell him» with this smiling face. And I was like «hahah, no you wouldn’t and I tried to give him this mean stare…and then he called out «JOOOOSSHHHHH»!!!!! And then I was like «that’s stupid» and he was like «you know he has a girlfriend right?» and I didn’t but I said «yeah, but I don’t even like him anymore» I mean I still like him a lot!!, but im trying to get over him…but its hard. What should I do?? He’s kinda a flirt…like today I gave my friend and him a cracker at lunch and he said «Thanks, I’ll love you forever!»
There’s this girl I see a few times around campus.
She’s really pretty and ive talked to her a few tomes.
I would like to get to know her, better, but I barely see her.
Any suggestions?
I’m decent looking and skinny, but the problem with most girls ive dated who think they’re hot demand that i give them special treatment, do stuff for them, act like bîches, lie about liking decent guys, play games with me, and act super entitled. I’m pretty direct and I just want a good relationship without that BS. Im thinking of dating a kind of girl that would actually respect a guy like me. Are overweight girls more appreciative of genuine guys?
I could date pretty much anyone but if normal girls think they can pull that stuff they pulled with me they’re no longer an option.
For background: I’m in my mid to early 20s and I’ve recently been messaging an old acquaintance and we met for drinks and later exchanged numbers. We’ve texted since but I find myself stopping myself from texting. I really like him and he has a lot of the qualities I want in a long term relationship and I think about him all the time. But how much texting/frequency is too much?
Thanks!
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I like her a lot and I heard she didn’t like me so I tried moving on but I found out she did like me but doesn’t anymore bc we stopped talking. Is it worth approaching her and if so what should I say
My ex god broke up with me a year and a half ago. The reason was because I drink too much. I’m 21 she’s 18. We were together for almost 3 years. I didn’t have a job when I was with her never. I improved myself for me not for her. My life just is better period. Her well I don’t know much. I was really moving on and forgetting about her until I added her on Instagram! She followed me back. She doesn’t post anything of guys or nothing! I asked her how’s she been last week and she said good and she’s staring collage etc. I told her to message me instead of startin convo over Instagram comments. She never wrote back or messaged me. Ever since I started following her I seem too look at her activity not a stalker either. Far from it. An yway should I block her so I can move on or would that make me look weird for adding her then 15 weeks later block her? Also I was her first love and she was mine. There’s also no way were getting back together? What if we run into each other in the future or something? We’re like in good terms. Thank you so much it would mean the world to me if you helped me!
I’ve been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years..
The only issue is… we’re far distance and I have trouble trusting him.
I told him that before, and he’s all «Lindsey…» and he will start crying and it makes me feel BAD.
It really does.. But anyways, since now he’s in college.. He started 2 days ago.
The first day of College, he came back at 11. So I was all «Woah. Why up ?» and he was like «Oh. I have to go to Dick’s for basketball shorts and shower» and I’m just like , in my head atleast «Wow. That took you really that long» so I just went with the flow.. But who knows!
Yesterday, he didn’t come on at ALL.
Today, he’s still not on at ALL.
He tells me he gets up at 8 a.m. and ends at 12 p.m. Then he goes back at 3 p.m. and ends at 7 p.m. It’s already past 7 , and I think he’s doing things behind my back! I even tell him that and he gives me his talk, and it’s just really hard to believe :[ .
Can I have advice pleasee?
He’s 16 and I’m 19. DON’T judge and tell me to move on because he’s had a hard life and I don’t need to make it worse on him.
So I been talking to this girl for a while and we have hooked up and stuff and I like her.
She left on vacation and we haven’t taped in like a week so I was thinking of texting her this….
Hey, so how’s the most beautiful girl in the world doing today?
What do you think of this text message, i dont know whether to send it or not ?
*We’ve kissed before and he initiated it. When we first kissed he placed his hands on my neck. This was after a night out.
*We then ended up at a pool party where he held my hand or had his hand on me in front of his mates.
*He told me I was a good kisser and that I made him feel happy.
*We cuddled up and fell asleep together (I had made it clear that I wouldn’t have a one night stand with him) he accepted that.
*I rushed home in the morning.
*Never saw much of him since.
*First time I did it was a little awkward.
*We cuddled and he rubbed my back then spoke to me a little.
*He’s approached me and we’ve spoke since (he teased me quite a lot and had a laugh with me)
*He had the chance to ignore me but he came out of his way to speak to me as soon as he saw me.
*He came into my work last week and was joking with me leaning over the counter towards me.
*As he left he said bye and as he got to the door he turned round one last time and waved with a huge smile.
I just wonder is he trying to be my friend or trying to let me know he’s interested?
Ps, his dad recently passed before we even kissed each other, so it’s been real hard for him
Me and a guy already act like a couple, and we say we love eachother every night but he hasn’t asked me out yet — I cheated on my last boyfriend (it’s a very long story but plz don’t lecture me I’ve had all that already) so maybe he’s worried I would cheat on him? I wouldn’t tho, will I seem desperate if I ask him why he hasn’t asked me out? Agh idkk what to do
«You being happy is enough for me» and «thinking of you» got these texts from a guy who i thought was just a friend. Do those statements sound a little more than friends
So there is this guy and he has been doing this weird staring thing for a few years now. He did it last year and the year before that. I never understood it and still don’t. I thought by now he would be over it since he never speaks to me and we have never exchanged words. He’s very arrogant and conceited. That makes me kinda nervous cause it makes me think he might be making fun of me or something.
A little bit ago there was this moment in class when he walks in, looks back at me, whispers to his friend and then his friend looks back. It was so obvious. He sure isn’t trying to hide it but then again maybe he’s just that clueless that he’s being obvious. Then throughout class he kept glancing back at me. He would look over his should and glance back at me.
I’ve meet her mom and everything . She cooks,cleans and is a awesome girlfriend .
But should I not trust her
and you dont want your ****** up parents to creep on you when you’re over there talking to them?
So i will never meet these pretty girls because I seriously won’t go up to them because my parents are here.
I keep asking about this, but as I think about it I keep seeing it differently.
I was dating a girl who it turns out had just broken up with her 2+ year boyfriend. It was going great — it was genuine interest and I really don’t think I was just a rebound.
We got drunk and decided to make it official. A couple of days later, she obviously had doubts and told me she thought she was ready for a relationship, but she wasn’t, and didn’t really know what she wanted.
I took this as that she needs some space, so after dropping her home stopped contacting her.
Now the question is — was this the right move?? Did it actually mean that she needed space, or just that we should slow things down a bit?
Should I stop contacting her and let her sort herself out, or should I text her sometimes like we always did, and meet her less frequently (if she’s up for it) — basically treat it like the early stages of dating??
I look forward to your opinions
i am looking for dating sites that let you message people for free
Is there any specific thing that has to happen for it to be considered sex? Does there have to be some kind of penetration? Does it count if it’s just us cuddling/playing around in bed, naked?
I know the answer is probably something like «there are many different kinds of ways to have intercourse, it all depends on your opinion.» So maybe the better question to ask is: what is NOT considered sex?
If it matter at all, I am more concerned with heterosexual sex, as I am a straight male.
Thank you.
If anyone wants to know this story in more detail, feel free to look at these links to older questions to do with my situation with this guy…lol
http://uk.answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AorFsNdRdC8b0v3n8uIBvScgBgx.;_ylv=3?qid=20130527172508AAbRFgu
http://uk.answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Ard_S7r2DgMPdWpz0pSKrbYgBgx.;_ylv=3?qid=20130816061638AAbtKX4
If not read on…
So there is a high level of attraction between us. I like him a lot. And I shouldn’t really doubt that he likes me. We’ve known each other for 2 years at university and liked each other right away and he sorta chased me for a while.
But we’ve only starting ‘seeing each other’ (if that’s what this is) over the last month, with a lot of flirting prior to that. We haven’t met up in person a lot over the last month though as we’ve both been pretty busy in our lives as we have both just graduated university. Which is cool, I can understand that and I don’t want to rush into something too intimate too quickly. I also just got out of a really long term relationship with someone else.
My problem is this at the moment:
He hasn’t really made it clear about what he wants from me. We have never had sex. And we’ve been on a couple dates.
He seems more than happy to Facebook message me at night with flirty lines, sexy pictures and talk about ‘getting with me’ when we see each other again.
But he hasn’t officially asked me out for a while now…so when will I see him again??
He also talks to me less during the day time (he used to text me ALL THE TIME) and now only really talks on Facebook for a little while occasionally during the day.
At first, I would always make him initiate the conversations. Especially when he was doing more of the chasing. But recently, I have started to try to initiate some of the conversations…and he’s not very responsive. Just kinda vague or takes ages to reply…
And it always happens, that I get annoyed that the relationship seems to just be heading towards sex, without the sex… or he hasn’t messaged me in a few days, so I consider giving him up.
But then he’ll message me something cute or just randomly talk to me again in a nice normal way…so I decide to give him a chance.
He knows I’m not the kind of girl to go all the way without being courted/dated quite a bit first.
So what gives?? I really don’t want to be taken for a ride and get my feelings hurt.
For example, last night, he messaged me on Facebook and we had a nice little chat for a bit.
Then he got a bit flirty and I reciprocated and we ended up having fun with a bit of sexy messaging.
Then of course, when it’s late and he’s done…he says good night.
I woke up this morning thinking…I don’t want to get stuck in a rut where I’m just an online thrill for him when he’s bored. Is he interested in ‘ME’? We have a lot in common and really enjoy each others company. But lately, he seems to just be all about the sexy messaging…
I saw he was online and thought maybe I should ask him if he wanted to see me when I get back from my trip next week (I am currently out of town on holiday).
So I just messaged ‘Hey’…he didn’t see the message for 15 mins and had gone offline and I assumed he was busy so I went offline. Then I came back on and saw he had now seen the message and so I let him know I was back online by saying ‘How’s it going?’ and he saw the message right away…But didn’t respond.
It has been a couple hours now and his activity feed shows he’s just listening to a lot of music on spotify. This is something he does a lot…and I notice he often doesn’t talk if he’s listening to music.
He’s very musical (something we share).
My guess is that he is either just doing things in his room and has left his laptop open to listen to the music and his Facebook is on to get the live feed so hasn’t actually seen the my message (it just stays popped up on his computer)
OR he’s just genuinely into the music and doesn’t notice/want to be interrupted.
OR he’s actually a jerk…and won’t give me the time of day.
Just wants to talk to me on his own terms when he feels like it.
Urgh, it’s so frustrating…What should I do?? I don’t wanna scare him off by making him feel like he should commit. I’m not the type to rush into things with high expectations myself!
But I don’t want to feel used…I want respect…
It would just be nice to see each other and get to know each other better. That’s all I want really. And then if it feels right, we know we can take it further.
If he wants me so badly the way he says he does…shouldn’t he do something about it?
I just don’t wanna waste anyone’s time. Is he a lost cause?
Thanks x
Okay, so I’m not the best at talking to woman, so I should have asked this before but this one person catched my eye, so I messaged and said ‘Hey, how’s it going?’. She replied ‘Good! How about you?’. What should I say? i know I should say I’m doing good, but I know I should say more, what should I say, like tell me a little about yourself? What should I ask?
its been 4 days and I have not heard from this guy, I have known him for over 10 years and we see each other off and on, however I am usually the one to ring him the day after we have seen eachother but this time I have left it and its been four days should I wait it out and wait for him to call me,
Okay so there is this guy in one of my classes and I think he’s really hot. I have a crush on him and I am always staring at him and just mesmerised by his beauty lol, and he always catches me staring at him and when he catches me staring at him he doesn’t look creeped out he just stares deeply into my eyes and doesn’t break eye contact and I eventually look away. We always make long eye contacts and he’s always staring in my direction. Do you think he might like me or else why ould he be staring at me right
Pleaz help I’m really confused.
It was around 9:00PM, and it was dark outside after a long day of training camp for a school program. He is 2 years older, and old enough to drive, while i am not. There mustve been atleast 50 other cars in the cramped high school parking lot. I was beginning to think my mom wasnt going to show up, so i started walking out of the school parking lot. He then pulled up in his car next to me, and said «allison your mom is over there.» I said «oh ok thanks» and then walked in that direction. I was a little creeped out, but happy that i didnt have to walk home. When i got there, the windows were closed, and my mom was inside the car, and she said no one talked to her or anything. So he actually watched me get picked up one of the few times i didnt walk home? He was peeking in the car? What the heck? Does he like me? He stares at me on and off, but most of the time i catch him when he doesnt expect me to be looking. I know he used to like me, and i think he is insecure. We dont talk anymore though really, even though ive been trying to work up the courage to start up a conversation. Does he like me?
I know he used to like me, a few months ago, but once school we never saw each other so yeah…
My boyfriend and I dated for about 3 months and he broke up with me in June. It’s not like I was completely devastated, we go to different high schools about 30 minutes away from each other. Besides, he spent more time playing Xbox than wanting to talk to me. In the middle of July, he messaged me on Facebook, just wanting to talk. He said «sometimes I wish we were together, I just don’t know.» We proceeded to talk all that week for a couple hours about random stuff. Then it slipped back from him talking to me a couple times a week, and then a couple times every other week. He doesn’t always respond to my messages after we’ve been talking for awhile, and then a few days (or even hours) later he says «hey!&# 187; as if I hadn’t sent him a message before that. Out of the 15-20 times we’ve talked since we’ve broken up, I’ve only started the conversation once.
It seems like he flirts with me a little, it wasn’t so obvious with his «winky faces» until a few nights ago, where he kept sending me <3s, telling me that I was beautiful, and jokingly saying that I should come into his bedroom that night to watch tv. By the way, he's not a player. We ended the conversation, and the next night, he texted me saying hey, but for some reason I didn't get the text until the morning. I said "hey sorry I didn't get this until now, what's up?" That was yesterday morning, and he didn't respond, even though he was updating facebook statuses from his phone. I don't want to get too hung up on this, because after all, he is my ex. I'm not sure anything would work out anyway. But why is he so spacey? Do you think he likes me? Thanks!
I need a really cute but confident, manly, and reasonable way to ask a girl out. Im a freshman in high school. I don’t have a car so I can’t drive to her house and throw pebbles at her window. But I want a cute way in person or over phone to ask her out. Something that she will remember forever.
Ok so today my gf told me she cheated on me with some guy. She said that it was a mistake but how can I know that she won’t do it again? We’ve been together for 2 years and I love her so much, but now I don’t know if she loves me. She says she does but if she did, it would never have happened in the first place.
If I knew she wasn’t going to do it again the i would take her back but if she is going to do it again then I don’t ehat to be with her. I haven’t really let her know how much I’m hurting on the inside.
What should I do?
I used to be on medication(psych meds). I’ve been off them for like a year. My mother wants me to take them again. She «like me better» on them. They come with some unfavorable side effects. I’m 22 now, so she can’t force me to take anything. I told her the other day that I would take the medication if she was able to talk my really hot female friend into wearing black stockings for me. No sex or anything geez. Would you alright with it?
Like what’s your age/ race so I have better understanding of who’s giving feedback?
I came back from vacation and brought this girl that I like (we work together) a teddy bear.
When I gave it to her she didn’t seemed too surprised and gave a small thank you. (we were surrounded though by co-workers sitting around).
Later that same night I get a message on facebook from her. It has a big thanks with smiley blowing a kiss with a heart. She also attaches a photo closeup snuggling to the Teddy (just going to sleep) and looking straight to the camera with a sweet smile (no teeth showing).
Does this sound like a big friendly thank you, or could it be something more. Do girls do this a lot to guy friends to show their appreciation???
We’ve been dating for 3 months (we’re both 19). It’s my first «grown up» relationship and not something from middleschool. She is having a ton of feelings for her ex come back apparently. They’ve dated for roughly 2 years and he messaged her saying he still loves her, it’s a mess. She said she doesn’t want him anymore (after he dumped her) but at the same time she spends a lot of time thinking about him and «misses» him. I finally told her to just go back to him if it’s what she wants, we kinda got in a fight. She just wants to be «alone». Any advice? I tried being sympathetic but at the same time i’m being put on hiatus for her douchebag exboyfriend.
I have only seen my gf 4 hours in the past month because she is in school it’s not far but she is busy I have not seen her in 2 weeks I am crying ;( what would help thank you
So, I dated a guy for over 2 years we were kinda the couple everyone wanted to be. But we broke up almost three months ago and now I’m head over heels for my friend. We both like each other a lot and I’m not sure if he’s going to ask me out or not but I’m not sure what to do. I mean I want to be with him but I feel kinda weird leaving school with one boy then returning with a different one. Do you think it’s bad that I already want to be with another guy? Of course I’d take things slow. There’s no time limit on love right? When it happens it happens. Just hope my logic makes sense..
So me and this girl, Lindsay, both live in Minnesota, but we live about 3 hours away from each other. We met through her best friend and my ex, and she just started talking to me randomly.
We started texting and she was flirting A LOT. I started falling for her right away. We talked 24/7 and when she was at her cousin’s house, all 3 of us face timed. Lindsay talked to her cousin about a lot of different guys, but I didn’t really think much of it.
When she left her cousins, she said she wanted me at her house so bad.. and she kept telling me I was soooo hot and she wanted to kiss me really bad. She was really turning me on and she even gave me a boner a few times.
So after about 2 weeks of getting to know her, I drove all the way to her. When she saw me she smiled and hugged me. The whole time she was just laughing and smiling and being super sweet to me. Then we sat on the ground in the park and she kept getting closer to me, I knew she wanted to kiss and I really wanted to kiss her, too. She kissed me a few times, and then she crawled in my lap and we started making out for like, an hour, I swear. Then when she was ‘done’, she asked me when I was leaving, and I had to go in about an hour. She smiled and we made out until I had to leave.
So it’s been like, a week, after that. I text her daily and she rarely replies, and when she does, she acts distant and weird. I mean, when I was with her she texted mostly guys, but I thought she liked me. She’s had sex before, and shes pretty young. Younger than me at least. I still really like her, but she almost never replies, and being with her I KNOW she ALWAYS has her phone in her hands, texting guys every second. I know because she used to text back right away and get mad when I took over 5 minutes to reply.
Did she use me? I still like her a lot, and I just feel like all she wanted was to hook up. She’s talked about getting in my pants before, but she refused to go in her house because her parent’s were home. I didn’t wanna do it with her, but I knew how much she was dying to get inside my pants. She’s talked about it.
So did she use me?;/
