I’ll keep this short. I’m 19, he’s 21, we had sex for the first time and it was really awful. It was a really bad experience, we we’re nervous, it was *extremely* painful, and it ended with both of us unsatisfied and clueless. I feel like there has been awkwardness since then. Honestly I don’t think I want to try again, it was just too painful despite going really slow and using lubricant. He way bigger than I thought it was, but I also have a small frame. it’s made me really self concious because he said it never happened with his ex. I think i’m going to get wasted (drunk) before we try next time. Any tips for first (second) time?
Open Question: how to recover after an awful first time?
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