Sunday, 25 August 2013

Open Question: He asked me to take off my top?

I am in a relationship with a guy, this is my first.

Is this normal for a relationship?

I do like him but not love because you cannot just love straight away. Everything kind of rushed quite fast, I don’t fully obsess with him so yeah.

The second day of our relationship, I was on msn with him. He asked me to take off my top which I know it is weird and wrong. He said that how I could be more comfortable with him, to closer our bonds and gain trust from each other. I really didn’t want to and how is that helping the relationship, seriously.

He asked me why am I being all shy and stuff, he is willing to take off his pants and he said it just as if I am wearing a bikini. I don’t even wear two pieces of but once piece and also a t-shirt over it as well.
I just feel uncomfortable and shy and whatever, it also just the second day :L

But he’s a very religious Christian so he’s a good guy, I asked that isn’t that sinful if I did do that, he replied no because you’re mine.

So I hesitate and did it anyway, I don’t know why but I feel so humiliate or I don’t know what word to describe my emotion now. I just dislike it.

Well I understand guys sometimes have needs, so I won’t be angry or judge him by the sudden request.

So what should I do now?

Is it a common thing to do within relationship of both parties?

Or should I end it, because I also like this other person :L But one of he quote is that if you really love the first one you wouldn’t have fall for the second one which is the one Im in a relationship with.

The first never have time for me and we hardly communicate anyway so maybe I should just love and obey the current one whatever satisfy him…Just being faithful.


Open Question: He asked me to take off my top?

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