Wednesday, 25 September 2013

Open Question: Problem between me and a guy?

Ok so me and this guy, we get along great, I’ve fallen in love with him and he with me. We spend all our free time together and we never even argue. But the problem is he is in a very difficult spot in his life financially right now and he always runs to me when he needs something. He’s gotten the impression that I have an infinite supply of money and it’s starting to exhaust me. I don’t mind helping him out, but he asks for things all the time now. I know he truly appreciates what I do, but I don’t want to feel this way anymore either.

Before you judge him too harshly, he was spoiled pretty badly as a child, and he still hasn’t fully grown up due to being in the military and subsequently suffering PTSD. He is always there when I need him and otherwise he treats me like a princess. I also have trouble saying no, especially because I care about him and want to make him as happy as possible. But I don’t want my happiness to suffer as a result. Any advice or help?


Open Question: Problem between me and a guy?

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