1.)Before you read any of this he did tell me he liked me, i told him i liked him. He asked if we could meet up in school, but i got so scared that i started coming up with ridiculous excuses for why i couldnt, and if i was him, i wouldve thought i didnt like him. So then the day we didnt meet up, this stuff started
2.) He wanted a friends with benefits relationship despite the fact that we had feelings for each other. He said he wouldnt rush me into anything. In the conversation where he asked to be friends with benefits, I said it made me uncomfortable. He apologized like crazy, and he said he was okay with not being friends with benefits because he didnt want me to feel pressured into anything. As much as it sounds like he was using me, he did things that showed he cared, and despite my uncertainty of everything else, i am certain he cares. After this I am guilty of avoiding him for a day(I looked down in the hallways, walked the other way when it looked like he was coming up to me)
3.) Next time I texted him, he said he didnt like me more than a friend, and then basically took back liking me(which i have actual evidence that he was lying about never liking me) He pushed me away(barely responded to texts, ended conversations quickly)
4.) Avoidedme in school, but still stared at me everytime we passed each other for more than 5 seconds
5.) I pretended to go along with being friends with benefits to see if he was using me. When I started making excuses for a few days that I honestly couldn’t make, he said it was a bad idea and he wanted to start over. WE NEVER HAD SEX OK.
6.) Deleted me on Facebook after I posted «It’s sad when the people you know become the people you knew. When you can walk right past them like they were never a big part of your life. How you used to be able to talk for hours, and how now you can barely even look at them.»
7.) Didn’t have an answer for why he deleted me, but claimed he never saw that picture(which im pretty sure is a lie)
8.) When confronted about pushing me away, he told me to leave him alone, and then suggested starting fresh.
9.) A few weeks later, he retweeted: «what’s that thing called when your crush likes you back? Oh yeah. Imagination.» (my friend showed it to me on her account, i have a twitter but i dont follow him and vice versa)
Is he insecure or not interested?
I’ve gotten advice from here before. To like pretend Im not interested and stuff. When he first asked me to be friends with benefits, I started avoiding him after a little bit the next day. And when he asked to start over, neither of us talked to each other. I usually tried to avoid eye contact and I would walk with other guys. Did it seem as though I wasnt interested?
Yes, I confronted him about him saying he didnt like me, and the reason he gave is fake
The past 2 weeks, we’ve seen each other everyday because of school activities. He stares more than a normal person would(typically i catch him staring when he thinks im not looking).
It was around 9:00PM, and it was dark outside after a long day of training camp for a school program. He is 2 years older, and old enough to drive, while i am not. There mustve been atleast 50 other cars in the cramped high school parking lot. I was beginning to think my mom wasnt going to show up, so i started walking out of the school parking lot. He then pulled up in his car next to me, and said «allison your mom is over there.» I said «oh ok thanks» and then walked in that direction. I was a little creeped out, but happy that i didnt have to walk home. When i got there, the windows were closed, and my mom was inside the car, and she said no one talked to her or anything. So he actually watched me get picked up one of the few times i didnt walk home? He was peeking in the car? What the heck?
Despite what hes done, ive talked to a lot of people, and they all say he is very nice and would never use anyone. I agree with that, but am confused
School started thursday he looks at me everytime he passes me, but i get so scared that i avoid eye contact.
At after school activities he only sometimes looks at me(that i can see atleast), but in school he stares at me everytime he passes. Yesterday a bunch of people were going to a football game, and i was zoning out looking at the sky for about a minute, and when i finally snapped out of it, his vision was locked on me. That happened twice yesterday
He stares out of the corner of my eye(my friends have noticed), and he looks even when he thinks im not looking. He told my friend he had bad experiences with relationships in the past, and i know for a fact he cares. Hes done many things that prove he cares. And even before he found out i liked him, he was doing things that showed he cared/likedme
This has been happening for 5 months now, so if he was using me, he would have given up and searched for an easier target.
Open Question: This is long but if you take the time to read it ill really appreciate it?
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