Thursday, 19 September 2013

Open Question: Does she still have feelings for me?

So, I just got back to college after having not talked to my ex girlfriend all summer (weren’t even friends on facebook or twitter). The relationship ended badly a year ago when she went abroad. When she came back we started talking and hanging out again, but then she decided she didn’t want to anymore, so we stopped talking. This was spring semester of last year. However, after we stopped talking again she 1. Drunkenly called out the girl I’d been talking to for a while in a bar 2. In late April, she came up to me at a bar and asked about my love life and 3. Saw me and another girl talking, so she and her friends walked across the bar and started dancing right behind her, though I didn’t acknowledge her. This all occurred during a t ime she was supposedly talking to another guy. No contact all summer. Then this semester begins and she adds me back on social media and wants to «bury the hatchet.» She ends up drunk texting me begging for me to come see her and hangout and to make things right, even calls me. I end up going over to her place a few weeks later when i’m sober and talk to her for 3 hours. We start getting along like old times, but she complains that the guy she’s been talking to since last year does not want to be with her (a very unattractive guy might I add). She IMs me later that night thanking me for coming over and talking, but she still complains about this guy and about how no guys treat her well etc. She then asks me if she was rebound for me, and I say no. She evens says she thinks I had feelings for another girl while we dated, which is not true. Anyways, a few days later she drunk texts me asking if I’m going out. She wants to meet me at a bar. I meet u p with her and she wants to get shots together. I get the shots, and she starts trashing the girl I’m talking to now. We end up getting separated, and I text her asking where she went but get no response. Saturday rolls around and she shows up to my frat’s party, but I didn’t talk to her as I was too drunk and she was only there for about 15 min before leaving…all she did was wave at me as I got out of a pool. I’ve decided I have had enough and lay it on the line with her. I tell her I still love her and have feelings for her and that unless she feels the same, I think we should be in contact with each other. She tells me she had no idea I felt this way and that she doesn’t have feelings for me and that she really just wanted to be friends and have me in her life (she and I have never been friends though)….that she likes this other guy she’s been talking to since last year (same guy). I’m a bit crushed but totally confuse d. She says she doesn’t have feelings, but it just doesn’t make sense with everything she’s been doing. What do you guys think? Is she being honest or kidding herself?


Open Question: Does she still have feelings for me?

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