I am 17 have been dating the same guy for almost 2 and a half years. I do love him and he’s great but for some reason the past month or so I just haven’t loved him as much. My feelings for him are dwindling and I feel horrible. I also feel horrible, though because I have a HUGE crush on another person.
I get it. I’m a 17 year old girl, feelings will change, but I feel like I have to stay with the guy I’m with now.
My boyfriend and I do love each other, but he loves me so much more at this point. I don’t want to leave him, but at one point I did and I couldn’t, even though I wasn’t happy. His home life is so horrible and he’s constantly telling me how he wouldn’t be able to survive without me, that he’s sure I’m his soul mate, and that he’s so lucky to have me. His father is a drunk and his mother is never home, and he makes it seem like he’d jump off a bridge if I ever left, and, honestly, I don’t doubt that he would. I don’t want to hurt him.
Right now I feel horrible for having a crush on another guy, but I’ve known this guy since 5th grade and always had a small crush. Freshman year of high school it just got bigger, and that’s when my current boyfriend and I started going out. Now I’m a junior and I’m head over heals in love with this other guy. And I see him everyday and have to talk to him. It’s not even that I have to, but I want to. However I have a boyfriend that I love! And my crush has also been in a long term relationship, so it’s not like I’m going to go after him or anything. I just need some help and advice. I love my boyfriend, I love my crush. I don’t want to leave my boy, but I feel like if It came to that point again I wouldn’t be able to. AGAIN. Help..
Open Question: Please Help. Major Relationship Problem and I Need Advice Pronto.?
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