Wednesday, 4 September 2013

Open Question: Is the woman I like starting to have feelings for me?

I’m sorry this is long but would really like outside opinions :)
We met a little over a month ago and are the same age (29). Things have been great and we have been talking pretty much every day. She has a beautiful 2 yr old daughter.
She told me last week that she may be traveling soon on business and I later said «Hopefully soon we can go on our first dinner date ;) «. (Not being sarcastic)

She texted me that same night last week saying «Hey I wanna be honest with you, I really like talking to you but I want you to know I don’t really wanna date someone at this time. I think you are a great person and we can be friends. Sorry I was gonna tell you before but I didn’t find an opportunity. I think I work a lot and don’t have much time :/ . But I definitely like to talk to you. I think we have a lot in common.»

I texted back saying I’m an honest, patient, understanding man and that I didn’t want her to think it was bothering me bad that she had been unable to see me before. I told her «Let’s just take the time and go slow, first as friends and build a connection that I believe the both of us believe has started. I would really love to get to know you more in time and build our bond we started which has been wonderful :) . What do you say we give us a try? And go at your pace? :) » She replied «You are absolutely right :) »

Since then, she drove 40 mins to my show where I perform as a drummer the following night to try and surprise me. Yesterday I texted her about me pulling a muscle in my back and she replied «Aww poor you :( I’m so sorry to hear that. I hope you feel better tomorrow. Otherwise go to get an x-ray and make sure you are ok :) I hope you feel better tomorrow. Let me know how you feel :) »
I then told her I want her to have a good night sleep and added «goodnight sweetheart»
She said «Aww you are very sweet. You too as well :) nite nite »

I sent her a pic with a rose layin on a piano that says sweet dreams. This morning she said she loved the pic and asked how I was feeling. She later called and told me she was going to the UK this Wed. for 3 weeks on business. After explaining to me I told her I adore her and admire her hard working mentality. She thanked me and shortly after making her laugh and getting off the phone, she texted me saying «It was so nice to talk to you. Have a good sleep and hope you feel better tomorrow :) (from your back) »

Anyone, ladies preferably, what do you think? She’s now flying to the UK today. Does she have interest and feelings for me? I believe she does but want outside opinions. She told me before that her and her ex (together for yrs and broken up over a yr ago) were friends for a while before going further. Thank u so much for your time :)


Open Question: Is the woman I like starting to have feelings for me?

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