Friday, 6 September 2013

Open Question: How can I fix this, or what should I do?

Hello Yahoo,

Okay, Okay so there is a girl who I dated at one point. We literately just had a school relationship, and the only other time was at a football game which she went off to do stuff, leaving me with her parents. I don’t even like football.

I tried, because I was nice. Because I felt like she was nice..

Anyway later I had to move, in which is really far away. Well two hours far away, and I can’t drive just yet. So for like the ninth time we ‘broke up’. But like always she would say ‘She loves me’ and other such things. I never said this too her, but she keeps saying it.

Then every day she tells me about some horrible thing in her life, and how it’s the worst life ever. Then she says I’m the reason she doesn’t kill herself. She says she’s alone. Say’s she has nobody.
What about her parents?
What about her two best friends?
Like really.. I met them, I know she has them!

Now I know I know, everybody has issues but this is too much. I can’t take on all her problems when I have my own. I get it, life isn’t so amazing. But she doesn’t have to say things like this, it really just both worries me and annoys me. It shouldn’t annoy me; someone saying there going to kill themselves. But everyday? This is understandable right? I feel like a terrible person, feeling this way..

She takes forever explaining her issues, then changes the subject at anything else. Also constantly changes the story. Then when it comes to something I have wrong, and trust me I have a few things, but I don’t always bug her with them, once throughout the last five months. She told me, «Your fine.» Then went on to her issue.

It’s hard to care for someone’s safety when they don’t seem to do the same.
She ‘loves me’ but won’t listen to me.

Yahoo, I’m confused. I don’t want to be the bad guy here, I feel like disconnecting her could either break her or help her somehow. I would do this in person but two issues;
1. It’s again far away, and I don’t know when I’ll get the chance.
2. She has anger issues. I’m afraid I could set her off, and she would possibly like hurt me. Just don’t tell me ‘be a man’. I’ll be honest here, she’s stronger then me. I’ll consider wearing a helmet..

But I don’t see how just telling her would help; because it’s been done before. Many times.
So Yahoo, what do I do?


Open Question: How can I fix this, or what should I do?

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