My boyfriend and I have been dating for four years. In those years, a constant problem has been him talking to other girls. Calls and texts mainly. As far as I know he has never cheated on me. The problem I have is the fact that I’ve always said I didn’t care who he talks to, just don’t delete calls and texts. I believe hiding it means he has something to feel guilty about. Recently, I went to his house and he freaked because I shlwed up unannounced. I asked if I interrupted anything as a joke and he acted shifty. Well, I found on our phone bill multiple (like hundreds) of texts to a girl he just met. Of course I was upset because he lied to my face. I confronted him and he said he wasn’t sure if he wanted me anymore. Also, he defended her, sayi ng she was attractive and nice and had a wonderful personality. Meanwhile, he insulted me, saying I wasn’t as good as her. Naturally, I was quite angry. I said fine, but if he didn’t want me, then I would stop supporting him and he’d have to get a job. Suddenly he was okay with being with me. My question is, was I justified in being angry? Or should I have just let it go?
Open Question: Boyfriend being shady..?
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