Wednesday, 28 August 2013

Open Question: I'm "feeling out" a few guys at one time and one of them is anxious....?

Make it clear that I’m seeing other people until I decide which one I truly like. I’ve just been hanging out with a few different guys lately and all of them have expressed a desire to pursue a relationship with me. I’m trying to weigh out the pros and the cons while I continue to get to know the three of them. To be clear, when I say hang out, it does not involve physical/sexual contact of any kind—other than a hug. One of the guys (an old friend) expressed to me today that he was completely ready to be in a relationship with me. Honestly, I’ve only been out with this particular guy one time, so I have not made a decision at all on him. I’ve been seeing another guy fairly regularly; t hough he has been a bit quieter on the whole «relationship» discussion—other than stating that we are a great fit for one another. In regards to the guy who is ready to start a relationship TOMORROW, how do I go about telling him that I would like to wait and see—without telling him that there are two other guys that I’m seeing? Once I do make a decision, I will be faithful to that guy and politely end communication with the others; however, I do not know how to handle this in the meantime? Please be polite, thank you?


Open Question: I'm "feeling out" a few guys at one time and one of them is anxious....?

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