So I don’t dancel, I mean honestly I could learn easily but I’m really shy, and self conscious with what other people think. Theres a back to school dance tonight and I’m not going but my bf is going. I want him to go because I want him to have fun and stuff, but he says it won’t be fun unless he dances with other girls. He says its not a big deal, he says its not like cheating or anything but I am so uncomfortable with this. A girls a** dancing on his d*** just didn’t seem ok for someone who’s in a serious relationship. I want to ok with letting him do this because dancing is his life…he said he wouldn’t go because he doesn’t want me to be upset but then if he doesn’t go I’ll feel bad. We’ve talked a lot about this, last night we had an hour long conversation over the phone of him trying to convince me that this isn’t a big deal. And I turned this whole thing around in him, I asked what if I was the one who was dancing on guys, and he was the one that didn’t dance and was staying home. He said he wouldn’t care. Which is hard to believe because he’s a really jealous guy, I just don’t know. And we’re going to homecoming and prom together, I hope I’ll be fine with dancing by then.
Am I wrong here? How would you feel about this if you were in the same situation as I’m in now?
Open Question: Bf wants to dance with other girls cuz I don't?
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