long story short-ish, i’m in a relationship with this guy. hes sweet and honest and i’m surprised he likes me at all, because no-on ever has, and i don’t think any one will again. i’m a young teenager and he’s a little younger than me. At times, it shows.its difficult because we cant see each other in person due to location, only over skype or text, but i don’t think it bothers him. He says he loves me and although i know that many(many many) guys lie, i think he’s being honest. the thing that bugs me is we hardly ever talk. ever. whether we are online or not. im always trying to keep a conversation going but he insists on giving me one word answers, so we can never really talk properly, but he doesn’t r ealize he’s doing it. in his mind its like ‘eh nothing to say, ill say nothing’ but I really like him and i love talking to him, even if we only exchange a few words. i want to get to know him more but i don’t know how to without spitting questions at him and getting one word, or very short answers like some kind of interview. he doesn’t seem to want to know anything about me at all, and i don’t want to impose. I tried ending it subtly once because i figured if he’s acting like this he doesn’t really like me never mind love me, but he was truly upset and wondered where this was coming from. Im also wondering if im the rebound girl? he was in an on-and-off relationship with a girl he confesses to having unwanted feelings for(though he did try to take it back). am i just a way out? his way of forgetting her? I don’t want to ask him questions that seem too much or out of the blue especially when we don’t even talk much , but i’m afraid that i’m going to hurt myself even more if i have to sit back and wonder if he cares and why he acts like this. How can this relationship be fixed? can it be?
(if it matters at all, the guy has low self confidence and is quite shy. I want to know more about this but i doubt he’ll open up)
Thanks in advance.
Open Question: should i(if so how) end the relationship?
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