I’m turning 28 at the end of this year, and I have given up on love or even being in a relationship. Looking around me it seems so easy for people to jump from one relationship to the other. And date multiple people at a time. For me, it’s been difficult all my life. I’ve dated enough men. I would say a lot of decent men. But 90% of the time it’s only been one date. I’m either simple not physically attracted to them, or their personality. I don’t want to date for the sake of dating, so if I’m not into someone on a first day, that’s pretty much it for me. So I’ve been on a lot of «one dates» but never gave the person a second chance. It’s just hard for me to be attracted to people (and n o I’m not talking about physical attraction, I’m talking about chemistry). Am I the only one like this? It sure feels like it. So recently, I was reunited with a guy I knew over a decade ago. He thinks it’s fate. And I was excited to meet him again, after all these years went by, thinking to myself maybe it is fate. After we met, I felt empty. He’s a great guy, but I just don’t feel anything. So now it feels like there is absolutely no hope for me. Any advice?
Open Question: Is there still hope (for love) for me?
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