Monday, 2 September 2013

Open Question: Is he a player or does he like me? Please help! I'm so confused!?

Okay, thank you so much for reading this and I am really sorry if this is long.
Okay.

There’s this guy (Ryan) who I’ve been friends with for a few years now. We are in a big group together and he is always joking around. But for the past few months, he has been talking to me non-stop. He always says Goodnight and wishes me sweet dreams. He says Good Morning to me and asks if I’ve slept well. We talk for hours on end and he sends a huge bunch of emoticons whenever he is talking. At school, he is always sitting next to me and joking with me. At lunch time, when I don’t have Fashion Club, he comes over to speak to the people that I am talking to and when we are going home he seems really shy and sometimes waits with my friend and I, when we are waiting for our bus.

He seems to flirt a lot and say things like, «Never change :) » and «who says I find you boring ;) ».

But recently, he just stoppped talking to me and was a complete ass (please excuse the crude language). I figured out that this was because a girl (Shannon) that he has like for a while, started to take an interest in him, and I felt like crap because I had just been ignored. But when this girl rejected Ryan, he started chatting to me again a few days after. I felt used and hurt, so I told him my thoughts. He basically apologised and said he had behaved like a complete ass and would never, ever do it again. And now all he does is talk to me all the time and flirt.

I still feel used and don’t feel like talking to him. I like him but I don’t know whether he likes me or is just a desperate player. Please help! :(


Open Question: Is he a player or does he like me? Please help! I'm so confused!?

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