I’m 33, and I am perfectly normal except for that I just haven’t had sex.. I’ve finally met someone I feel totally comfortable sleeping with.
Problem is he is much younger than me and exprienced. He thought I already slept before, and so I lied that I have with two of my boyfriends.. which I regret.
We naturally passed from preminary to him trying enter me few days ago. I felt totally fine, aroused and not nervous at all, but he couldn’t enter me. I just felt like I am way too small, and impossible for him to get through.
He didn’t say anything, and I don’t think he’s figured out I’m a virgin yet.. but I know he wants to try again the next time we see each other, in few days…
I thought I can fake it, since mentally I have no problem. But I saw that probably physically it’s not possible to fake…
How can I tell him… I’ve already lied to him that I’ve slept before, and I just didn’t want to make a big deal out of this. At my age, I know it would be very weird for him… and add to that, I have to tell him I lied…
I really would prefer to fake through, but I’m just worried that it will be obvious when we do it the second time..
Open Question: how can I tell him I'm a virgin at over 30 without freaking him out?
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